at the time change will seem extremely hard. it will seem scary and uncomfortable. you will cry, you will be sad. but its okay. change isn’t always bad. usually, change is good for us and we don’t even realize it until we are happy and fulfilled. a few months from now, after the change has taken place and you are settled, you will have an ‘oh!’ moment. a moment where you realize this was where you were supposed to be the whole time. it is all going to be okay, try to allow change to flow into your life and allow it to do what it does. it is supposed to feel uncomfortable at first. you are fine. the future is smiling upon you.
yes, you should be kind. you should be considerate and giving and caring and loving and nice to everyone you meet. however, when it gets to a point that people are not reciprocating your generousity and are taking advantage of your sweetness, you no longer have to treat them kindly. you can be a good person and say no to people doing you wrong. you should be kind, but you also should stick up for yourself in situations of injustice.
Our generation is super carefree about sexuality and honestly it’s so beautiful like we are all so gay it’s beautiful